Your dilemma is very common. I want to start by recognizing the truth of our modern culture; we revere youth. It’s not fair, it’s not just, and it is what it is. Many men over a certain age want to hold on to their own youth by dating younger women. From a man’s perspective, they…
How can someone be addicted to feeling bad? Don’t we normally seek out pleasure rather than pain? It probably does appear to others that the person is addicted to feeling bad… but if you think about it, they probably don’t know anything else. It has been their source of survival, a way of living, for years, and therefore, they probably wouldn’t know how to act any other way.
DrBev, I don’t like being Alone. I feel like a relationship ‘Predator’. I don’t realize how many womyn/men I hurt until it’s too late. Lonely, I can’t seem to handle me, myself and I, not by myself. I need another’s body next to mine to feel whole.