“Denial may be worn like a cloak to hide a fear of intimacy or feelings of vulnerability.”~~ In DrBev’s World. Repeated experiences of denial, lies, and betrayal continue in our emotional life when we are in denial about our lack of awareness of self-sabotaging behaviors. “Our nature is to avoid emotional pain.” We don’t…
DrBev, can committed relationships can benefit from Valentine’s Day, especially if the romance has faded? My case is a good example, like many committed relationships—ours has diminished to such an extent that we are just going through the formalities. But, we really love each other. Yes, in those cases, Valentine’s Day can serve a different purpose,…
QUESTION: I’m having issues with finding self-forgiveness. I did something I regret. I have held onto for 34 years and it seems to be getting worse. Any suggestions? ANSWER: Most of us have done something in our lives that we wish we would have done differently. Denial of feelings that only you can give to…