You must love and value yourself if you are to love others. You have to respect yourself and acknowledge your own self-worth. Does this make you selfish? No. It makes you responsible. Remember DrBev’s Gestalt principle #4 “TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.” In DrBev’s World, here to save you time pain, and emotional suffering.
Are there some toxic elements in your relationship even if they do not occur frequently. In some ways is your relationship is unhealthy and destructive.
It’s the little things in a relationship that simply mean everything. Especially when the relationship is the relationship with Me, Myself, and I. DrBev’s World gives me permission to Believe in Me, Me and Me. When I feel responsible for others, I fix, protect, rescue, control carry their feeling, don’t listen. I feel tired, anxious, fearful, and liable. I am concerned with the solution, answers, circumstances, being right, details, and performance. I am a MANIPULATOR. My pay-off, I expect the person to live up to my expectations. I am Capt. Save a Hoe.